Sunday, 22 August 2010

Maybe you can help me

I have been thinking a lot about poverty lately. The area we lived in in England is pretty affluent. I wouldn't say rich but there wasn't really any poverty. But here in Pensacola is a different story. Several times a week we are confronted with people on the street who are asking for money, a job, or some sort of assistance. And there are seem to be many others who just tired, poor and hopeless that hang out in all parts of town. Maybe it is caused by the bad economy but I remember Pensacola being like this when we were here before. Our pastor pointed out that in most cities, the poverty is zoned into certain areas so most middle-class folks are not forced to confront the poverty unless they drive into certain areas. But in Pensacola you can't miss it. It is everywhere.

It breaks my heart to see people like this. I used to carry powerbars in my car and hand them out. But then I got jaded because I felt like I was being taken for a ride in a couple instances. Then some time passed and I began to feel bad again and want to give them a handout.

The question that lingers in my mind is that as a Christian, how am I to respond to the poverty around me? We tithe to the church and we give money to different missionaries each month, as well as occasionally support Samaritan's Purse. However, these are all regulated, controlled areas of giving. What am I to do when poverty confronts me out of nowhere? And how am I to be wise about how I give in those situations?

I think of the movie "The Blind Side" and how the woman (I can't remember her name) was confronted with the boy who had no place to live and she seemed to not hesitate to help him. What does that look like for me?

If anyone has insight I would love to hear it. I have a plan for what to do when confronted by the Mormons and Jehovah's Witnesses who come to the door, but I need a plan for poverty. How can I wisely give and serve these people when I am in this current stage of life?

Cheers.



This is one of my favorite pictures of John from when he was a baby...not too happy with the Halloween costume :)

10 comments:

Meredith said...

i love the house you were at too!! :) y'all are precious people and I miss you! i don't have any advice currently on the poverty issue, but it does make you stop and think.

SK said...

It sounds like you are really feeling convicted about this! I like your idea about using Powerbars or something similar. Our life stage makes it hard to do hands-on soup kitchen/homeless shelter work, but maybe you could support them in other ways?

eb said...

Kate, I struggle with the same and don't claim to have this issue figured out. But I did do some reading and that helped my perspective. My favorite was a book called "Rich Christians in an Age of Hunger". Also, have you considered volunteering with a local shelter or food bank?

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Team Downing said...

So my comment got crazy long....check your email.
John is cute no matter what you dress him as for Halloween!

Amy said...

Since we talked about this the other day, you know that I struggle with this issue as well. But I've really been trying to be led lately, instead of always trying to lead. *BIG problem for me!* I guess, in relation to this post, you could do the same. If you give someone something because your heart leads you to, I think you'll always be satisfied with the outcome. Even if you're "taken for a ride" by one (or 2 or 3), you don't know what God has in store for that person in the future. Or, even bigger than that, what He might have in store for the guy that you pass by b/c you got burned before. You know what I mean? That's not to say that you should hand out powerbars by the boatload...I just think that you're heart will normally show you the way. And I like the idea of volunteering at a soup kitchen or a food bank. There is one here in Columbus and even though I have to pay a babysitter to watch Elli while I volunteer, I really feel like it's something that I'm "supposed" to do...it's all about being led (I think!).

And I LOVE John's little costume! Too cute :) What will your boys be for Halloween this year??

Segal Party of 4 said...
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Segal Party of 4 said...

What a poignant topic to discuss. I struggle with it as well and I'm interested to see how others respond

Missy McCurry said...

I would go by your heart like Amy's comment. I took a trip to Ireland with good college friend last year. I saw a woman with an 8-12 month old on the street asking for money. I walked by her and immediately turned around. I COULD NOT walk by that woman and child without giving any money (20 Euros). Even if the woman ending up buying something bad with the money, at least I knew that I had tried to help. Maybe you could donate money or canned goods to a homeless shelter or soup kitchen. Good luck. It is so hard to know when to help and when not to.

Victoria Hudgins said...

Hi Kate,
I found your blog topic interesting and it brought me back to when I was a young mother and grappling with the same issue.
Here is my answer to you and I hope it helps. Victoria

http://www.peaceistheparadox.com/

Aug.29 post: "Kate needs a plan"